Dating the older man
This past summer was one of the best of my life, an adventure in more ways than one. In one particular case, that new person and that new thing were a package deal. Our generation has taken to texting for all of our communication needs. Faking interest in hopes of getting into a girl's pants is no longer a game being played.At 19, I found myself in a summer fling with a man six years my senior. When you're dating someone in college, there's almost always the assumption that you're sleeping together. But older guys are just the right amount of old-fashioned. Whether this is because there is actually a paycheck to fund said dinner and drinks, or whether the #netflixandchill phenomenon started with our generation, I'm not 100 percent sure. Worth noting: If you are seeing a guy in his 20s who is still raving on about his brothers, it might be time to peace out. There's not enough time in the adult world for that.There are certain things which definitely get better with age. Fortunately, for the majority of men, a grey hair here, a love handle there, simply adds to their sliver fox appeal. They’re financially sorted Of course not all older men (or women) are financially sorted, but the chances are, the more years notched up on a person, the more established their career will be.But when it comes to relationships, people often consider mixed-age relationships to be bad news, that people who are within a similar age bracket have a higher likelihood of maintaining a successful relationship. From old-school manners to life experience, here’s 10 reasons why older men make the best boyfriends. They’re hot The salt and pepper hair, the laughter lines, the old-school style … They’ve been there and done it There is a lot to be said for discovering new things together in a relationship, however, when it comes to experience and stories, what beats a man who’s got a few under his belt already. You have different interests And wouldn’t life be boring if we all liked the same things. You might not be looking for a ‘sugardaddie’ but dating a man who is on, at least, an equal financial footing, is always going to make a relationship more balanced. They won’t want to go clubbing until six in the morning But won’t give you a hard time when you do once in a while either, as they understand the importance of personal space. There’s mutual appreciation Because regardless of your age, when you’re on the arm of an older man you’re *always* a hot young thing. I like a little challenge."-Austin, 24"Being a spoiled brat or selfish and vain. Know when to stop."-Jacob, 23"I don't want to hear about your ex-boyfriends...We want a hard-working, giving queen, not a self-proclaimed princess."-John, 25"Not being honest or open about what you want, whether it's where we're going for dinner or what you like in bed."-Evan, 22"Don't leave your dirty underwear on the floor. or anyone you've hooked up with for that matter."-Ben, 20"Too much makeup, as well as girls who don't like country music or sports."-Jeff, 24"If on the first date she doesn't sing songs in the car with me, I know we got problems."-Garrett, 23I think it's fair to say that guys are probably the most frustrating specimen on the planet.
When you click on a Sponsored Product ad, you will be taken to an Amazon detail page where you can learn more about the product and purchase it.The bad came from me, as I had a naive expectation.I made the most ridiculous mistake in believing one silly thing: that he had it all figured out because he was older than me. Out of respect for him, I won’t elaborate on some of those unfortunate events.But we also have to admit that girls are often romanticizing older guys.We assume that they’re more mature, more worldly, more sexually experienced, serious about relationships, ready for commitment, and super cool and suave.